如果爱，请深爱 (If Love, Please Love Deeply)

人生就是一场不断和命运、和自身做抗争的沉重的悲剧；而时下，我们又面对着三千年未有之大变局，中国人的精神压力异常巨大，中国人的爱情之路，注定崎岖坎坷。爱情，这个生命的必需品、精神的庇护神被不断稀释，“拜金女”“宝马女”“草根男”“屌丝男”层出不穷，各种“高富帅”“白富美”相与抗衡，我们的爱情处境尴尬，我们的爱情处境堪忧，我们的爱情处处告急！; 但就在这样的艰难下，我们也无法放弃爱情。我们发现，我们对爱情的渴求不是少了，而是更多更强烈了——因为人的本真永远存活在我们心灵最深处，缺少了爱情的道路会更难走，缺少了爱情的人生注定充满了残缺和遗憾！孔子说：“诗三百，一言以蔽之，曰思无邪。”安意如也说，诗三百，不过是前生无邪的记忆。正是这无邪的《诗经》爱情，让我们能在这艰于呼吸的水泥墙外，霓虹灯里，感受到一丝丝爱意。它将抚平我们不堪入目的伤痕，它将指引我们朝着新的希望继续前行。; 由是观之，我们实在更应该感谢这思而无邪的《诗经》，是它让我们在物欲横流的时下，更加真切地看到了自己内心对爱的呼喊，是它为我们幸运地保存了一份朴素和原真。 ( Life is like a heavy tragedy of constant fighting against fate and yourself. Currently, we are facing the great change in 3000 years; Chinese people are so extreme spiritual pressure and the love path of Chinese people is destined to be arduous. As the life necessity and guardian of spirit, love is constantly diluted. There are numerous material girls, BMW girls, ordinary men and poor men while there are also wealth & handsome men and beautiful & wealthy women fighting with them. The status of our love is awkward, dangerous and urgent. However, even under such circumstances, we can not give up love. On the contrary, we find our desire of love is not lessened but increased. Because the true essence of a human is always in our heart; life without love would be more difficult; life without love is destined full of defects and regrets. Once Confucius said “There are over 300 poetry in the Book of Songs. However, we can summarize all of them in one phrase – pure idea”. 300 poetry are merely the pure memory in the past. We can feel the love amid concrete wall and shining lamps because of this very pure The Book of Songs. It can cover our ugly scars and guide us to march towards the new hope. Therefore we can see that we should really thank the The Book of Songs, which maintains us clearly see what we need in the innermost of our heart in such a materialistic society and maintain the simplicity and original truth luckily. )