121 First Dates

December 14, 2015
Intrepid dater Newman—now in a long-term relationship—reveals the bumpy road she traveled to her own happy-ever-after. After advising female readers about preparations for finding Mr. Right—including what to expect and what not to, avoiding common mistakes, and mastering the “art of flirting”—she takes on an emotionally fraught topic: the first date. Newman offers women tips for navigating first dates, such as appropriate subjects for conversation (she recommends not talking about sex), before moving on to what comes next. Here, she counsels readers on why men might not call for a second date, and if they do, when to sleep with a new boyfriend for the first time. This frank advice will help those still struggling to find love believe in its ultimate possibility.

November 15, 2015

It took professional dating, relationship, and sex educator Newman 121 first dates to find the love of her life. Sharing her research and experiences, she shows readers how to know what to expect from dating, date effectively online, have a great first date, and end uncomfortable situations with grace. Newman offers secret tips for online photos, the advice to meet sooner than later, and safe possibilities for meeting in person. Her comprehensive guide is for women of all ages who range from tired of dating to eager to get back out there again. VERDICT Sound advice in the form of what to do and what not to do.

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December 15, 2015
Professional dating-coach Newman, who met her soul mate on her 121st first date, offers advice and hope from her own life to singles of all ages, shapes, and sizes. Focusing on Internet dating because it offers the largest pool of potential mates, Newman advises women not to spend too much time corresponding with men before arranging the first date lest expectations get raised before compatibility can truly be determined in person. She alternates between walking women through the online dating process and sharing some of her own stories, which range from the mundane but disappointing to the outrageous, including a hike with a felon and a dinner date with a guy who invites her to his house and promptly strips down. Some of the advice will be familiar to those who've been in the dating trenches for a while, but Newman has some unique tips on listening and getting over heartbreak that even seasoned daters will consider worthwhile. Readers will find Newman to be a warm, encouraging, and positive guide to the wild and sometimes wacky Internet dating scene.(Reprinted with permission of Booklist, copyright 2015, American Library Association.)