培养了不起的男孩大全集(Full Collection of Cultivate Outstanding Boys)

要做称职父母，先和男孩成为朋友 男孩可以说天不怕地不怕，没有安分的时候，你可以批评他、教育他，但是千万不要不理他。他们最怕的是没有人做他们的朋友，没有人理解、没有人帮助、没有人支持。从小就要男孩知道，他是个男子汉他跌倒了，就要自己爬走来；他犯错误了，就要让他知道，好汉做事好汉当；他不听话了，就要让他知道，男子汉是不会给别人添麻烦的......让你的男孩能力超群有的家长为了让自己的孩子不落后于别的孩子，一天到晚让孩子学这个学那个，其实这种观念并不完全正确。要知道，对孩子能力的培养比对孩子知识的浇灌更重要，中国有句名言：授人以鱼不如授人以渔。在教育孩子时同样要加以借鉴。鼓励男孩多与人交往 父母应该鼓励男孩多参加团体活动或游戏，在活动中，鼓励男孩融入这个集体，让他与其他小朋友成为朋友，锻炼男孩的交际能力，这样男孩的性格也会变得开朗活泼，容易与人相处。( If you want to be a qualified parent, first of all, you need to make friends with your boys. Boys are afraid of nothing and they are always upset; you can criticize and educate them but never ignore them. They are most afraid that nobody wants to make friends with them; nobody understands them; nobody helps them; nobody supports them; a boy shall be aware that he is a man. When a man falls down, he shall get up on his own; when he makes mistakes, he shall be aware that a man shall be responsible for what he has done; when he is badly behaved, he shall be aware that a man never causes troubles for others; make your children superior to others: some parents force their children to learn everything from the morning to the night so as to make sure their children will not fall behind others. As a matter of fact, this idea is not completely correct. We have to be aware that cultivation of their capability is more important than knowledge education. There is a saying in China that give a man a fish and you feed him for a day; teach a man to fish and you feed him for a lifetime. This shall be referred to during education for kids. Encourage boys to communicate with others and participate in group activities or games; during this activities, encourage boys to joint the team and make friends with other kids so as to exercise his communication ability. In this way, boys can be outgoing, active and get along well with others. )