Infidelity

Infidelity: it happens to millions of people around the world. We all know about Tiger Woods and Elin Nordegren, Prince Charles and Princess Diana, Bill and Hillary Clinton, but it's not something confined to the rich and famous. The truth is that with every relationship and every marriage comes the possibility of infidelity. No matter what gender you are, whether you are straight, gay or bi, infidelity can find you.

Julia Hartley Moore has experienced it too - in her own life, and also in her career as a private investigator. In this perceptive book, she identifies the telltale signs to look out for if you suspect your partner is a cheat, how to work through it, and how to survive infidelity without becoming scarred and bitter. Bursting with useful information and practical advice, INFIDELITY is a self-help guide as well as a reference book. It includes dozens of real-life examples from the author's professional work, as well as chapters on how to have a successful affair and on your legal and financial rights (by lawyer Ross Knight).

In this new edition, Julia also tells her own extraordinary story. She was in her teens, and the mother of three children, when she experienced infidelity for the first time. Four marriages later - and fifteen years after setting up her own private investigation company - she is in an ideal position to offer both personal and objective insights into a subject that fascinates everyone but devastates those it touches.

How can the person you trust the most in the world betray you? How can someone you care about more than anything not care about you? These are questions that millions of people around the world have had to ask themselves. Even people as famous as Sandra Bullock, Elin Nordegren and Hillary Clinton.

Welcome to the coal-face of betrayal. Internationally best selling author and private investigator, Julia Hartley Moore has seen the shattered lives, the broken families and the grief that infidelity leaves in its wake. The sad reality is that with every relationship and every marriage comes the possibility of infidelity. It doesn't matter how rich, beautiful, powerful, successful or intelligent you are - infidelity doesn't care.

The advent of cheating websites such as Ashley Madison are starting to normalise infidelity yet discovering that our partner is having an affair can be the most devastating thing any one of us will ever experience. Worse even than a death some say, because its emotional fallout can be so damaging, often lingering for years and damaging subsequent relationships.

But it doesn't have to be that way.. .'infidelity can often be a wakeup call that leads to a new beginning' says Julia, who speaks from personal experience. How to spot a cheater, how to deal with betrayal - Julia tells it like it is in this new revised edition of the international bestseller INFIDELITY But the real lessons come with Julia's own remarkable true life story, told here in print for the first time. From rock bottom as a 16-year-old mother of three children, Julia has survived three marriages, betrayal, and abuse to become a successful international businesswoman and author. Newly married to the man she calls "the love of my life", Julia says that in love, you only have to get lucky once.