别怕，我家孩子也是爷爷奶奶带 (Don't Be Afraid. My Children Are Looked After by Grandparents, Too)

别怕，该书是一本送给没时间自己带孩子的父母的一本书。很多教育专家批评说爷爷奶奶带孩子不利于孩子的成长，但是现实的问题是父母必须要上班，来维持生活开销，一方放弃工作回家带孩子无疑在这个高物价、高生活成本、高教育成本的今天是不现实的。所以怎样在爷爷奶奶带孩子的前提下保证孩子不被爷爷奶奶"带坏"是最重要的。本书作者通过自己的经历给有同样烦恼的家长出了很多高招。如何让爷爷奶奶不惯坏孩子？在意见分歧的时候怎样与爷爷奶奶沟通？如果批评孩子时爷爷奶奶护着怎么办？这些敏感问题是任何一本家教书都难以找到答案的。本书告诉我们：只要父母掌握好方向，爷爷奶奶做好主力，一定能把孩子带好！（Don't be afraid. This book is given to those parents who do not have time to take care of their children.Many educational experts criticize that it will not be conducive to children growth if children are looked after by grandparents. But the realistic problem is that parents must go to work to provide living expenses. If either of the parents gives up work and returns to take care of their children, this will undoubtedly be unrealistic today, when there are high prices, high living costs and educational costs. Therefore, the most important is to ensure that children are not spoiled by their grandparents under the precondition that they are looked after by grandparents. Through his experience, the author of this book gives much good advice to those parents with the same experience. How should we ensure that children are not spoiled by their grandparents? How should we communicate with children's grandparents over different opinions? If they are improperly protected by their grandparents as we criticize children, What should we do? For these sensitive questions, any book on family education is hard to give answers. This book tells us that as long as parents make the direction, and grandparents do their good job, children can be looked after well.）