时间太瘦，指缝太宽——人生就在舍得之间 (Time Is Too Thin While Fingers Are Too Wide — Life Is Between Loss and Gain)

作者抓住了当前人们渴望自省的心理，为在"舍得"之间徘徊的人们，从适度取舍、摒弃欲望、放下执念、贵在坚持、宽容为怀、心求豁达、从容上路、自我超脱、珍惜拥有、把握当下、活出真我等11个方面，结合生动有趣的事例，为人们讲述"舍得"的意义与对应做出的心理调适的方法，希望人人都能做到正确合理的"舍得"。(The author grasps people's desire for introspection and provides the people who are wandering between loss and gain with the real meaning of " loss and gain" and the methods to adjust the relevant mentality from the views of appropriate choice, desire abandonment, putting down obsession, perseverance, tolerance in mind, generosity in mind , living unhurriedly, relaxing ourselves, valuing what you have, seize the present, living out the true self. Based on the vivid and interesting stories, it wish people can make the right and proper choice between loss and gain.)