The Gift of Forgiveness

February 24, 2020
In this affecting survey, Schwarzenegger Pratt (I Just Graduated… Now What?) explores forgiveness through 22 interviews with people who have experienced tragedy or suffered loss. Interview subjects include parents of children killed in the Columbine and Sandy Hook shootings; kidnapping victim Elizabeth Smart; Tanya Brown, sister of Nicole Brown Simpson; and the wife of Chester Bennington, a rock musician who killed himself in 2017. Schwarzenegger Pratt weaves her own personal experiences and reflections throughout and shares lessons from each person’s story, such as practicing self-love, the power of using prayer, and the importance of releasing the burden of guilt or shame and respecting the process of grief. Schwarzenegger Pratt emphasizes that forgiveness happens one step a time: “Forgiveness starts with a choice, and then it becomes a process.” Most of the stories involve the subject’s deep yearning to be free of painful thoughts and emotions, and their movement toward forgiveness often requires honestly looking into memories and past choices. Schwarzenegger Pratt concludes with a helpful list of resources, including organizations and projects dedicated to spreading awareness about the power of forgiveness. Those looking for help with letting go and moving on will love this. (Mar.)Correction: An earlier version of this review misstated the author's last name and also the number of interviews included in the book.

January 1, 2020
This is a thoughtful collection of 22 true stories gathered by a best-selling celebrity self-help and children's author in interviews conducted with the goal of sharing exactly what forgiveness can mean to different individuals and how each person was able to achieve that state of mind. Schwarzenegger Pratt opens with her own experience of finding her way to forgiveness in a long-term friendship and how this inspired her to go deeper into the nature and benefits of forgiveness. Each participant, some publicly known, such as Elizabeth Smart, others not, describe the turning points in their lives that allowed them to open themselves to the possibility of forgiving others for even the most brutal crimes and betrayals and how the act and practice of forgiveness have changed their lives. The author then offers her own reflections on each story. At the book's conclusion, Schwarzenegger Pratt encourages readers to apply what they've learned to their own lives, providing a reading list for further exploration. This contemplative book offers fresh insights with each immersion.(Reprinted with permission of Booklist, copyright 2020, American Library Association.)