Hunt, Gather, Parent

May 1, 2021
Time-tested parenting methods from three Indigenous cultures help a mother tame her wild toddler. Doucleff knew there had to be a better way to parent her child, one that didn't result in Rosy's hitting, screaming, and throwing temper tantrums, where every day wasn't a battle from morning to night. Using the investigative skills she has honed as a correspondent for NPR's Science Desk, she traveled to the Yucat�n to live with a Mayan family, the Arctic to spend time with an Inuit family, and Tanzania and the Hadzabe tribe to understand how other cultures raised helpful, independent, disciplined children without unnecessary drama and frustration. Doucleff shares the tips and tricks she learned along the way and includes with each chapter a distilled list of insights that can be quickly referenced when the need arises. For example, she explains how to deescalate a situation by remaining calm and instilling awe and how having a child help with chores at a young age may create more work at first but gives the child the chance to learn and assume responsibilities that help the family. Also, when a child understands the consequences of her actions, she is less likely to misbehave than if she only hears the words no or don't. Of course, the author recommends outdoor time, emphasizes the power of stories to teach lessons, and shows why it's important to let children speak for themselves. Doucleff, who has a doctorate in chemistry, interweaves scientific research and her own trials with Rosy into the information she learned from the Mayans, Inuits, and Hadzabe. The result is an intriguing study that should be useful to parents from any culture, especially those who are at their wits' end with their rambunctious, untamed children. Eye-opening looks at how ancient techniques can benefit modern parents.

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