Love You, Hate the Porn

A pornography addiction can feel like real infidelity to a spouse. There's nothing virtual about the damage done to a relationship, and the wounds are reopened each time a relapse is discovered.

As tough as it is to overcome this addictive habit, healing a marriage damaged by pornography is even harder. For spouses, it's not enough for their partners to simply stop looking at porn. They need healing themselves.

Some couples separate and divorce. Others stay together, but the strain of unresolved feelings takes a distinct toll. Many wonder, Can our marriage heal? Will we ever feel close again?