The Optimystic's Handbook

April 28, 1997
In Messengers of the Light, Terry Lynn Taylor introduced the concept of "optimysticism," a combination of optimism and mysticism that represents "the choice we make not only to experience the best of this world but also to see beyond the world, into eternity, and in so doing to live the mystery to the fullest here on earth." Here, Taylor and Crain (author of the "Eccentric L.A." column in the magazine L.A. Style) expand the idea, drawing on spiritual principles to outline practical ways readers can cultivate a positive attitude that transforms adversity into opportunity, deepens relationships and enriches daily life. But this book is no smiley-face refrigerator magnet: "Basic Training in Tragedy Management" is a particularly thoughtful and moving chapter that addresses pain, failure and loss as harsh realities that, however difficult, can nevertheless be occasions for "optimysticism." What makes the book truly inspiring, though, is that it never takes itself too seriously; the fun in sections such as "The Seven Most Ineffective Habits of Highly Hopeless People" and "Blessed Are They Who Do Not Depend On Luck" underscores the point that humor can be a powerful antidote to despair.

October 1, 1997
Coauthors Taylor and Crain discuss the concept of "optimysticism," first introduced in Taylor's Messengers of Light. The phrase refers to the ability to see beyond the worst of situations to the mystery of goodness at the core of life. Developing this ability requires us to abandon ideas of perfection to allow ourselves to be transformed by painful experiences so that suffering becomes an opportunity for compassion and hope. Although this message is a worthy one, its impact is often lost in the authors' cheerleader style.