Be Different

February 15, 2011

A guide to making the most of living with Asperger's Syndrome. 

Aspergian Robison (Look Me In the Eye: My Life with Asperger's, 2007) offers down-to-earth life advice for his "Aspie" peers and their friends, families and teachers. The author grew up never fully understanding why he, an intelligent, capable man, could never quite fit in. It was only when he was diagnosed with Asperger's at age 40 that he realized his quirkiness arose from having been born with a mind that made connections in ways different from what he calls "nypicals" —people with neurotypical or "normal" brains. Unlike so many other Aspergians who end up alienated, alone and unemployed, Robison gradually found ways to overcome his social and communication deficits and transform his differences—such as superior concentration, abstract reasoning and mechanical skills—into gifts. Beginning with a chapter that gives a human face—his own—to the "restricted and repetitive patterns of behavior" associated with Asperger's, Robison proceeds with a discussion of the thornier interpersonal issues Aspergians face. Compensation for all or most of these challenges is possible, argues the author, by combining the Aspergian strength of logical analysis with observation, an awareness of past experiences and practice. Learning to live in a "nypical" world was not easy for the author—"[i]t's been a lifetime job for me"—but the rewards have made his efforts undeniably worthwhile.

Recommended reading for anyone seeking to understand Aspergian children and adults.

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November 1, 2010

We first met Robison in brother Augusten Burroughs's eye-popping Running with Scissors. Then Robison himself spoke up, detailing his life with Asperger's syndrome in the best-selling Look Me in the Eye. Here he uses examples from his own life to advise Aspergians and their parents--including his "Mom Army" of over 10,000 online followers--and also shares recent scientific research. There's an audience; this syndrome is increasingly in the news.

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March 1, 2011
Aspergers syndrome inhabits a particular niche with regard to treatment because it is characterized by symptomology that can be difficult to pinpoint, even in the somewhat less-than-exact art of psychological diagnosis. (The trainwreck-in-progress that is the DSM-5the next edition of the diagnosis bibleis rumored to fold Aspergers into a larger autism spectrum category.) RobisonAspergian author of the well-received memoir Look Me in the Eye (2007)does the Aspergers community a service in this eclectic book of essays on his experiences navigating social mores. He reflects on the bittersweet insights hes gained about his own lifehaving lived for years with Aspergers before the syndrome had been identifiedand provides incredibly helpful advice to families learning to live with these challenges. Robisons clear writing provides substantial insight into the mind of someone whose disorder makes clarity very, very difficult. While its important to recognize that this is the account of one person with Aspergers, and as such isnt about everyone with Aspergers, it is a valuable read nonetheless.(Reprinted with permission of Booklist, copyright 2011, American Library Association.)