Rescue Your Love Life
Changing Those Dumb Attitudes & Behaviors That Will Sink Your Marriage [UNABRIDGED]
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نقد و بررسی
July 25, 2005
Reconnecting with your mate is the goal of this uneven guide by Cloud and Townsend, the authors of the million-selling Boundaries series on relationships. Here, they offer a comprehensive look at virtually every way a marriage can disconnect. They also provide tested and successful solutions to these problems as they address issues such as unreasonable expectations, personality differences, and problems with communication, trust, sex and conflict resolution. Their advice ranges from the obvious—"Don't criticize or put down your mate"—to seasoned counsel stemming from a deep understanding of how marriages really work (such as when they conclude that couples "must go through reality to get to love"). The book is refreshingly honest in its push to get couples to examine themselves closely and pinpoint problems, as well as create appropriate solutions. Its comprehensiveness, however, is also its weakness. Skimming the surface of the huge topic of marriage makes for limited ability to plumb the depths of specific problems and solutions. While this is an excellent primer for discovering marriage-ending troubles and taking beginning steps toward reconnecting, the deep work of repair must be found elsewhere, perhaps in the workbook that will be published simultaneously.
After writing several other books based on Christian principles, these two authors apply their sensibilities to preserving difficult marriages. Their sincerity and vocal spontaneity overcome the wordiness of this text to present a well-organized overview of what individuals need to feel fulfilled in their marriages. In spite of the obligatory Bible citations, the material has common-sense clarity and no obvious religious dogmatism or piety (compared to many other relationship audios with Christian foundations). The friendly authors emphasize choice, authenticity, respect, and personal responsibility as being most influential in the climate of a marriage. Picking up momentum as it progresses, the program is an impressive collection of wisdom that many married couples will appreciate. T.W. (c) AudioFile 2006, Portland, Maine
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