The Real Reasons Men Commit

November 15, 2008
There are many ways to get a man into the wedding chapel, including taking the traditional route and using ancient Indian meditation, as these two books indicate. Psychologist Block and relationship writer Neumann explain that commitment really means exclusivity, thoughtfulness, and availability for both parties; one needs to be able to spot someone who is ready for these realities. The authors advise women dating men who show signs of unwillingness to commit to date other people. Robin and Michael Mastro, nationally known for their expertise on the art and science of "vastu shastra" (Sanskrit for "home instruction"), provide basic principles for creating positive romantic relationships in terms of space and energy. They offer Indian versions of feng shui principles to help readers (women or men, really) free the flow of energy in their homes to support a more receptive self and eliminate stress by balancing the five elements in the environment. Both books provide more than adequate coverage of the subject and might effectively be paired with books on divorce for a little perspective. Recommended for larger libraries.

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